Small membership is also ideal, at least in my case, because time is fleeting and precious. You want to make sure that you can balance your group with your life, and that you will have time to dedicate equal attention to all members of your group. Our group has four members that are active all the time, and one or two that pop in on occasion. Consistent scheduling will help with the time factor, too. We aim to meet once a month on a day we’ve agreed on as a group works out for us. We chose Sunday so that the procrastinators can have time to scramble together last minute words, and the busy people will get Saturday to read everyone’s submissions. We also limit ourselves to 25 page submissions, and schedule “special” sessions months in advance for completed novels to give people plenty of time to review.
There are a few key things to keep in mind while participating in a group. First and foremost, if you’re not having fun, or you feel like everyone else is benefiting from your insight, but you are not benefiting from theirs, start looking for a new group. You also need to remember to keep writing beyond group or you’ll never get done. Professional writers do a chapter a week, sometimes even in a day when they get in a roll. If you do a chapter a month it will take you two years to get those 24 chapters you were aiming for, or perhaps even longer if you decide to resubmit something. Work life and family balance should never be second place, so don’t go to extremes to get done, but keep up the pace and always strive to be a chapter or two a head of the group. That way even if you miss a month of writing, you won’t miss a month of reviewing.
Remember to keep your criticism constructive. Sometimes people get stuck or end up on paths that they had not planned on, and it is more helpful for you to provide ideas and guidance than for you to just tell them you don’t like something without explanation or examples of ways you think their writing can improve. There are many plot twists and direction changes that my own book has taken since participating in writer’s group that have caused me to scrap summaries and skew off on cool tangents that I had not thought of before. And, the further I get in my novel, the more ideas I have come up with for the master plot that I can weave back through. Almost all of this came from group members pointing out things they did not like, people being OOC (out of character), or members providing me with alternative solutions to problems and asking questions that make you think.
Remember that the first novel is the hardest, and planning doesn’t always work out. You’ll get there, it just takes time, and you have to be willing to make the time. Go ahead and just get through it. I promise you it is a lot easier to pick that title, find that opening line, and look for that missing plot scenario when you’re done than it is to obsess over the same chapter for months. Most of all, have fun and be yourself. Writing is an extension of yourself, and people will judge you for it, but try not to let that rule everything you do.
You and your characters are “Soul Bound,” too! They’ve been with you for many years and have grown along with you, much like your brother’s cartoon characters. It has been a privilege to watch the process. =>)
Thanks mom!